I have had people question how I do it all.
Of course my first thought is, do I? I mean, I feel like I am constantly failing at EVERYTHING. The self doubt is crushing, and it's never been like this before. And then a nurse tells me I know my stuff and my self doubt goes away, momentarily.
It won't always be like this. I'm told nursing school is just HARD, and add in a kid and a marriage and there are all kinds of extra angles, but nursing school should really be my WHOLE life. It sure takes up my whole life. I also honestly believe, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that teachers make all the difference.
This past session was awful. It was like I was in a constant nightmare. I will have different instructors, and I have heard good things at least about the lecturer. Another option is that I will go to a different school, one that's not accelerated and will get me my ADN and then I can complete my BSN online. I am taking the summer off to figure it out, to reconnect with my and my child again. I'm working 3-4 days per week which is just what I need. The other days are days to be a mom, which I was missing desperately.
I got a job at OSU as well at the Wexner Medical Center and I'm a sitter/student nurse associate. I enjoy it so far, but I'm looking to be trained on the floors because I am overwhelmingly bored already, three weeks into it.
When I got this job, I just could not imagine leaving Children's so I haven't. I also do not think I will. Maybe ever. It has not cleared up my confusion over what I would really like to do just yet. If anything, it has made it worse. One thing is for sure: I don't ever want to do med surg, although I am sure I will in some capacity for at least a while in order to gain experience and become a better nurse.
I'll get there, but right now it just appears like there is really no end in sight. I have to remind myself to JUST KEEP SWIMMING daily.
My pony is going down to Midway for a while...possible several years so that I can focus on finishing school and having more babies. That is another stressor- we are having trouble getting pregnant and it is likely that we will need a doctor's help to do so. The comments are brutal. "You already have a baby." "Are you sure you want a mini Tim?" So? And YES, absolutely.
I just feel like I have been caught in a tidal wave for a good long while. :-/ Just treading my way out.
